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每日谏言：做你自己（On Being Yourself）

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今天收到了TinyBuddha的每日格言邮件专递，其中有一篇关于“做你自己（On Being Yourself）”。早上特草做翻译、分享如下：

“He who trims himself to suit everyone will soon whittle himself away.” ~Raymond Hull
“谁装饰自己，以适应每个人，那么他很快将把自己削弱。”〜雷蒙德 赫尔

It’s human nature to want approval from other people, but it can be exhausting to compromise yourself to influence or manipulate other people’s perceptions. No matter how much you try, it simply isn’t possibly to control what other people think.
这是人的本性希望从其他人获取认可，但它可以用尽力量去妥协自己的影响或操纵其他人的看法。不管你多么努力，简单说就是不可能控制别人的想法。

If you’re being true to yourself, at least a few people will judge, question, or dislike you. No one can please the whole world all at once while honoring their own needs and truths.
如果你做真实的自己，至少有几个人会判断，问题，或不喜欢你。没有人可以一次就让全世界喜欢，而同时履行自己的需要和真理。

Today if you feel the need to people-please, ask yourself, what’s more important: knowing you’ve done your best to make everyone like you, or knowing you’re strong enough to stay true to who you are?
今天，如果你觉得需要讨人喜欢，那么问自己，什么是更重要的是：知道你做了最大努力使每个人都喜欢你，还是知道你很坚强，足以问心无愧于你是谁？